Jesus is not my boyfriend said in many different ways
https://youtu.be/gb0_2jHOOoQ
https://www.facebook.com/58312923308/posts/10155884592163309/
https://youtu.be/7DcoZ2FomFA
https://www.christianitytoday.com/women/2012/june/why-jesus-isnt-your-boyfriend-critique-of-dating-god.html
https://www.facebook.com/859710439/posts/10161067813190440/
https://www.facebook.com/KevOnStage/videos/552539758540086/
And my way;
I first encountered this lie as a struggling single and I call it a lie because no matter the way the girl packages it that what it is a Fat lie!!!
Why because both the girl and me know wha I mean which is:
A.Romantic dating
B.Physical attraction plus mental and heart attraction:
Song of Solomon
8 If you do not know,
O umost beautiful among women,
follow in the tracks of the flock,
and pasture your young goats
beside the shepherds’ tents.
9 I compare you, vmy love,
to wa mare among Pharaoh’s chariots.
10 xYour cheeks are lovely with ornaments,
your neck with strings of jewels.
The Beauty of her heart:
Ruth 1:
4 And behold, Boaz came from Bethlehem. And he said to the reapers, “The Lord be with you!” And they answered, “The Lord bless you.” 5 Then Boaz said to his young man who was in charge of the reapers, “Whose young woman is this?” 6 And the servant who was in charge of the reapers answered, “She is the young Moabite woman, who came back with Naomi from the country of Moab. 7 She said, ‘Please let me glean and gather among the sheaves after the reapers.’ So she came, and she has continued from early morning until now, except for a short rest.”[c]
8 Then Boaz said to Ruth, “Now, listen, my daughter, do not go to glean in another field or leave this one, but keep close to my young women. 9 Let your eyes be on the field that they are reaping, and go after them. Have I not charged the young men not to touch you? And when you are thirsty, go to the vessels and drink what the young men have drawn.” 10 Then she fell on her face, bowing to the ground, and said to him, “Why have I found favor in your eyes, that you should take notice of me, since I am a foreigner?” 11 But Boaz answered her, “All that you have done for your mother-in-law since the death of your husband has been fully told to me, and how you left your father and mother and your native land and came to a people that you did not know before. 12 The Lord repay you for what you have done, and a full reward be given you by the Lord, the God of Israel, under whose wings you have come to take refuge!” 13 Then she said, “I have found favor in your eyes, my lord, for you have comforted me and spoken kindly to your servant, though I am not one of your servants.”
C.Marital Love
And that you can never have with Jesus
D. It is deception on her part for the word of God says:
Matthew 5:27
But let your ‘yes’ mean ‘yes,’ and your ‘no’ mean ‘no.’ Anything more than this is from the evil one.
Matthew 5:16
In the same way, let your light shine before others, so that they may see your good works and give glory to your Father who is in heaven.
E. And this excuse seems biblical but is not rather it is akin to let us do evil so good will come out of it:
Romans 3:8
Let us do evil – That is, since sin is to promote the glory of God, let us commit as much as possible.
That good may come – That God may take occasion by it to promote his glory.(Albert Barnes)
F. Eventually the Guy will see thru this false veneer of Christian piety and either be more hurt ,a stumbling block or both
Matthew 19:
4He answered, “Have you not read that he who created them from the beginning made them male and female, 5and said, ‘Therefore a man shall leave his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh’? 6So they are no longer two but one flesh. What therefore God has joined together, let not man separate.
Christ does not and never include Himself or even as a viable alternative…
