Part 2: The wedding part 1

📌📌📌📌Cycle 2: The church wedding. Revised

While both anxiously


And stressful waiting for you with my best man Ryan to come down the aisle

And meet and join me in the front of the sanctuary

Side by side

God officiating

To bless and consecrate our union

Before our family

Before our friends

And before the hosts of heaven

By following her own personal yellow brick road like a real life Dorothy from the wizard of oz not to find her great wizard oz to find her way back home to Kansas but to find me and our future home together:

Remembering cherishing the love you Wanda freely blessed me with putting the broken pieces of me (like a human Humpty Dumpty and unlike the nursery rhyme where he had a great fall-As you can tell I had many great falls…)

not only she alone in all heaven and earth could put me together but she did it more better-

Reminding of this show growing up …,

And accounting for today’s inflation you made me into the billon dollar man.,,

Then When I saw you coming down the aisle

All I can see was you;

And that moment I first saw you you were transformed into my Cinderella

and this Cinderella you Wanda was not a make a believe character in a fairytale made up of words and pictures but a Eve made of flesh and blood living in real space and time-given life and existence by the breath of God and made in His image…

And at that moment I first saw you as well you

-you come down the aisle like a field of dreams experience

God behind the scenes of my life


Into the ears of my heart and soul and mind

In my case it was she will come-and that she was you Wanda-

A angel from heaven-

Bright and dazzling

Yes and yes and infinite yeses you took my breath away:

At that moment Wanda As I saw you coming down the aisle

I repeat again and again Wanda

All I can see was you

Everybody else became like:

At that moment Cupid let out another barrage of:

Like these superhero’s:

Which became these songs that burned forever in the very fabric of our minds,hearts and souls:



Becoming Not a weird science experiment of my mind and wishful thinking or unfounded hope:

Becoming Not my modern Frankenstein only real in my thoughts and dreams that only give it a semblance of life:

And not authenticating Macbeth as my Biblical prophet

Professing from the Very mouth of God a infallible prophetic utterance and description of my life what it is

What it was

What it will be

And how it ends:

Tomorrow, and tomorrow, and tomorrow,

Creeps in this trivial pace from day to day,

To the last syllable of recorded time.

And all our yesterdays have lighted

The way to dusty death for fools. Out, out, brief candle!

Life’s but a walking shadow, a poor player

That struts and frets his hour upon the stage

And then is heard no more. It is a tale

Told by an idiot, full of sound and fury,

Signifying nothing.

In light of this wonderful revelation

These cultural icons

These songs

These videos

These words

Or this word

(I borrow and in my creativity I see where they can fit)


Are symbols

I hammer into the shapes

Alone forging them with spiritual fire from my soul,mind and heart:

A human Prometheus using the tool of

Mind mapping in the act of creation

Are coordinates on Our treasure map

Giving us directions to these Kodak moments:

Of where we hid them them in the depths of our minds and hearts:

So they can be memorialized and dwell solely in our hearts

Be triggers

Be As launching pads

For our precious moments

To either be expressed by me point blank

Or by my God given creativity

For her heart

And my heart

To treasure and times be of comfort

Of nostalgia

A suit of armor and banner when sin the world and devil besieged our personal garden of eden

A hospital to heal our wounds

Our physician to diagnose and treat our sicknesses

A shield and a shelter from life storms to seek refuge and safety in….

Living memorial markers

To our first contact

Our first kiss

Our dating

Our courtship

Our marriage

And our only family…

(Psalm 127:3 English Standard Version (ESV)

Behold, children are a heritage from the Lord,

    the fruit of the womb a reward.)

Forging them



And inscribing them

(Gee reminds me of this movie)

into this wedding ring I will place on your wedding finger…

As two lives become one brand new life

I Took a chance and Faced the fierce winds of rejection,uncertainty and failure

Before it Led us to the front:

a church altar and pulpit

Before us our modern day Mt. Sinai

*Where the True God came down to man:


1 NOW MOSES kept the flock of Jethro his father-in-law, the priest of Midian; and he led the flock to the back or west side of the wilderness and came to Horeb or Sinai, the mountain of God. 2 The [4] Angel of the Lord appeared to him in a flame of fire out of the midst of a bush; and he looked, and behold, the bush burned with fire, yet was not consumed. 3 And Moses said, I will now turn aside and see this great sight, why the bush is not burned. 4 And when the Lord saw that he turned aside to see, God called to him out of the midst of the bush and said, Moses, Moses! And he said, Here am I. 5 God said, Do not come near; put your shoes off your feet, for the place on which you stand is holy ground. 6 Also He said, I am the God of your father, the God of Abraham, the God of Isaac, and the God of Jacob. And Moses hid his face, for he was afraid to look at God.

*Our modern day Abraham and Isaac sacrificial altar:

(Genesis 22:

8 Abraham said, My son, [46] God Himself will provide a lamb for the burnt offering. So the two went on together. 9 When they came to the place of which God had told him, Abraham built an altar there; then he laid the wood in order and [47] bound Isaac his son and laid him on the altar on the wood. [Matt. 10: 37.] 10 And Abraham stretched forth his hand and took hold of the knife to slay his son. [Heb. 11: 17–19.] 11 But the [48] Angel of the Lord called to him from heaven and said, Abraham, Abraham! He answered, Here I am. 12 And He said, Do not lay your hand on the lad or do anything to him; for now I know that you fear and revere God, since you have not held back from Me or begrudged giving Me your son, your only son. 13 Then Abraham looked up and glanced around, and behold, behind him was a ram caught in a thicket by his horns. And Abraham went and took the ram and offered it up for a burnt offering and an ascending sacrifice instead of his son! 14 So Abraham called the name of that place The Lord Will Provide. And it is said to this day, On the mount of the Lord it will be provided.)

A foreshadowing:

I….Traveled many roads either getting me hopefully lost or proved to be dead ends

Till I found the only road God blessed me with to walk and led me to you Wanda ending and beginning at the front of a church and a pulpit

Watching come down the aisle to join me

And to join our lives :

This time

Not a pre recorded audience going aah at not finding my trulove

My hearts keeper again and again

But this victory anthem for all Adams and all Eves:

And we exchanged our vows

Yet there is a touch of regret and sadness

As I fall under your enchantment

As you walk down the aisle

Instead of a perfect Adam and perfect eve

In a Disney perfect marriage


A perfect creation…

Yet because of God’s love and mercy continues to be a gift of God-

Created by Him for us

Continues to be our blessing from Him

Marriage of all Adams and eves

Whether they acknowledge it or not

Give Him credit or someone or something else:

Continues to be a holy and sacred and inclusive

special garden of eden

like the original eden

Yet Not a Disney movies of happily ever afters.

We introduce express it to each other

Gen 3:1-24

is marred by sin

Adams sins

Eves sins

Both our sins

And Sins other Adams and eves do to other edenic unions

Truly Because of The fall and sin-

Now it is rather a sinful Adam and a sinful Eve

In a imperfect marriage living out dickens quote:

“It was the best of times, it was the worst of times, it was the age of wisdom, it was the age of foolishness, it was the epoch of belief, it was the epoch of incredulity, it was the season of light, it was the season of darkness, it was the spring of hope, it was the winter of despair.”

Thus There is no perfect marriage like this all the time:

At times more like this(the new normal) because of the fall and its effects:

Adams vs Eves

Eves vs Adams

Adams vs themselves

Eves vs themselves

And everybody is shouting and nobody is really listening:

And Adams and Eves vs other Adams and Eves

To rule

To conquer

And to dominate:

And this truth

Is both bitter and sweet